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Have you ever wondered how come we humans react so much more, and with so much more passion to the negative or shocking news than to the positive and uplifting? What is it that makes us crave for the worst instead of the best? Because of it – I feel so repelled by people that are using their negativity to spread it around as some kind of disease, a virus of hate… And for sometime now I am ending relationships with anyone who is spreading negativity and bad feelings around. As I wish NOT to be “sickened” by them, and help spread unknowingly perhaps, this virus.
No matter what I do, or am trying to do however, these folks do seem to thrive and go on with whatever they are trying to achieve. Take as example the blog review about “Totallly-Useless” that was posted today on BlogCatalog.com:

Robert Said:
The word philosophy is from the Greek..philo love Sophia wisdom. A lover of wisdom or more to the point a searcher for absolute truths. You cannot have a personal philosophy only a personal viewpoint, as absolute truths are not personal by definition.
Robert UK

Rating: 1 | Posted: Wednesday August 20th, 2008 at 04:06 | Report This Comment

This “Robert UK” figure did not even have a blog submitted on BlogCatalog, and yet, he came there and trashed with his “rating of a mere 1″ this blog.
Besides, who is he, this anonymous Robert UK, to come to tell me that there is no such thing as a “personal philosophy” but only a “personal view point?” And is it not that on my own blog I can call things as I decide to call them? And having a “personal philosophy” is very much part of it… No matter what such Robert’s of UK decide to rate my blog with

Another example of how the Negative is getting more attention than the Positive are the amounts of people checking for such news stories, and when they find them, be it online, or on TV, or in newspapers, they have no time or attention left for all the positive news stories there. Research has shown time and time again the people feel more alive, and energized when they can react strongly on a negative story than in the same manner to a positive one. How come? Because the negative is feeding us with hormones that make us feel ready to fight, or ready to start a tirade with strong words. The positive on the other hand makes us relax and enjoy whatever we are reading, or hearing, or viewing. When we feel at piece we could easily be alone and feel great. On the other hand – negativity needs company, and makes us search for an audience with which we could share how upset we are. Perhaps we humans need the stress more than we need happiness and bliss. And if this is indeed so, I do refuse to be part of it…
And, than I think that making my point won’t be a problem. Trying to stop myself from elaborating on every possible detail – well, that might be.

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Now I’d love to hear, or shall I say – read, your point of view in regards. Wishing you all a happy and stress free week ahead

What is “absolutely out of the question” you might ask. The expectance of a straight answer from particular folks is… So, that alone should answer it for you.
I was planning to post several times in the last week but due to circumstances I couldn’t. And I was fighting with folks as described here above, and I was fighting with my own procrastination and unwillingness to get down to it and write. The 2nd part of myself, the negative one, was winning on all fronts, and my 1st me, the positive one, was too overwhelmed by the “bad me” to be able to fight it.

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The photo here above was meant to be posted on the 08-08-08, however, as I explained above it did not happen. It was chosen to be displayed on an article talking about the opening of the Olimpics in China and I did submit there. The 8-8-8 was a very special day for especially the light workers. It is expected that many more “doors” will open on this particular day, and more, much more magic will start happening all around Earth. I really hope this is true as I am in need of more magic into my own life, and the life of my loved once…

And with this photo here I am leaving you until my next post. A friend of mine wrote about it the following:”THIS IS A TEST for “humanity”. the comp, angle , colors and DOF have set so well that this is a mood spinner…”. So I hope it will bring you joy, as this is what it was meant for

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Wishing you all a great week ahead and talk to you soon

Even though I am so exhausted and have difficulties staying awake I wanted to post and let you know that I am still planning to go on with my blog(s). If you are following my Flickr account and see the daily uploaded photos, my partner uploaded them and not me, and he has been the one doing it for almost 3 months now. As for me, I have the flu due to getting soaked under the rain, and I was able to get under the hot shower it was already too late. In any case, the fever is down now but I am sleeping for the most part of the day as my body is demanding it.

The question in the title has to do with the latest uploaded photo of mine that I wanted to share with you. A break triggered it – between me and a girl-friend. I am not about to discuss why I had to end the friendship, but rather the exact opposite. So, here is my question, have you ever helped any one to fly? Helped in whatever way, and in any type of relationship – have you helped and stood by someone who was depressed? Or did you help another person to become better in whatever they are striving for? Or did you do exactly the opposite, and later blamed yourself for having acted nasty instead of being friendly and helpful? It will be really great to get some answers on the questions here above.

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Today I received an email from Jason Mangrum where he was telling about the latest song of his wife Skye. She is so very talented and beautiful young woman and I was filed with admiration for her ability to sing and write her songs herself. And have to agree with Jason that she is indeed with so many talents, and it will not surprise me if she becomes a star next to being in the marketing, and busy with helping people getting an understanding of the spiritual world. Enjoy her video and I will try to post again soon. And have a great week ahead