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[ # ] Secret love affair - how useful or useless is it to revive your legitimate relation?
August 16th, 2007 under Useless rants, Useless opinions, Totally Useless

lovers coupleHave you ever wondered what happened between you two? And where has the love gone? Or, how come you don’t have the butterflies in your belly no more? Is it the boredom that comes with the years, or is the passion gone missing? And do you long to be desired like you were in the beginning of your love story? Have you considered trying a short and, save, but totally secret love affair? And do you think something of the kind could help you reviving your legitimate relationship? And is it worth the risk you’ll be taking? The risk of getting caught for having a secret love affair, and having your partner hurt? And not only that, but loosing him or her for that matter? I’d appreciate opinions of yours in regards. Take care and have a great day :)


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[ # 33 ] Comment from Jesse [August 18, 2007, 7:33 am]

Everyone longs for the passion that sometimes dries up.I have heard from many people that the wild butterflies and excitement dies away, but I have also heard of people who kept the passions burning for a long time.I myself might have consider having a secret buddy or exciting friend, but when it comes to having sex with them, I would never do it.I hate sexual disloyalty. I would rather try to fix my broken relationship, or walk away if I cannot fix it.Many times we as people look at our partners and wonder…why am I still with this person? People do many things to damage the love we originally freely gave them.I guess we do it as well, as the years go by, we can wear each other down.

[ # 38 ] Comment from Totally [August 20, 2007, 1:51 am]

Thanks for your comment Jesse, and I appreciate your vews in the matter :)
And if you would like to read more in regards to the above - you could take a look here: http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1244031.aspx
have a great week ahead too :)

[ # 41 ] Comment from Criz Lai [August 20, 2007, 5:11 pm]

I would prefer to term it as infidelity. Infidelity is the act of unfaithfulness towards your partner. It will involve emotions, shame, disappointment, depression and rage for a couple to love and to trust again. Most of the time, it’s an abuse of relationship where the partner is a “serial cheater” and this is the worst case for reconciling.

Maybe your readers would like to try out my infidelity test to check on the percentage of flirtatious they have. http://crizlai.blogspot.com/2007/05/will-you-ever-yourself-get-involved-in.html

[ # 47 ] Comment from Totally [August 25, 2007, 6:13 pm]

Thank you for the link Chriz :)

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